Safe phone sex is always adventurous. Venturing into the unknown always comes with a lot of anxiety and gives you a good dose adrenaline wash. Phone sex is something you had never had before leave alone practicing it. But here comes a time when desperate situations call for desperate measures. Your partner has to answer to a call of duty. But does it mean it is the end of your sex life? Of course no. Experience the adventure of phone sex. At first it may feel like navigating through uncharted waters but if practiced safely you will take command and nothing will feel more pleasurable than phone sex. It feels so real sometimes. Just like your partner were there with you. It becomes a ritual that you always long for. It creates so much excitement in you. It is lovemaking done in a different style. Sex reloaded.

It needs prior preparation just like normal physical sex. You have to set the mood very straight before starting phone sex which means getting naked. You could even re-establish contact with yourself with a move akin to masturbation. Your mind must be psychologically prepared and tuned in order to achieve the desired height of pleasure. Their is no eye contact unless you have equipped yourself with a video cam. Remember safe phone sex is non sexual. It is all in the mind. A game of the mind which is the most versatile sex organ. Critics have labeled it as foolery but tel-fooling has the capacity of saving a relationship. It keeps couples in touch, it makes them feel more closer after a love making session on the phone. Safe phone sex ensures that the fire keeps on burning.

Dim the lights and heighten the theme of the night by putting some sexy music in your player. You are going to have sex with your partner and it is no mean joke. It could do with a little tele foreplay just to get things straight and flowing. Sex has never been better. Safe phone sex allows the creativity of the mind and body which makes you to identify with your body. You might discover what turns you on or some new erogenous zone you didn’t know. Imagine making a phone sex date with your partner. It keeps you in the right sex mood as you wait with anticipation for a physical meeting.

Well, having been in the industry for 4 years, having participated in over 5,000 phone sex calls, I have an opinion. Read on if you are curious - I already know you think you have the answer. So did I, 4 years ago. I was wrong.

First, lets look at phone sex itself. This is the safest and most convenient kind of sex. It can last as long as you want, or be over in less than 2 minutes, no strings attached. Callers can remain anonymous, can explore fantasies they wouldn’t dare admit to, and confess anything to a sympathetic ear. They can ask for advice about personal situations. Callers can experiment with outlandish fetishes without committing to anything, or catching anything! I could go on and on, suffice it to say phone sex is easy, secretive, and has no real restrictions on what is ‘allowed’.

What about married men calling for phone sex on their way home from work, or during Thursday Ladies Night Outs? What about them? Are they cheating? No, Phone sex is not cheating. Phone sex is entertainment, and it is much better entertainment than TV or Porn - its interactive and alot more ‘effective’.

Are they perverted? They may be, but not because of the phone sex call. Millions of men are happy in their ‘vanilla’ relationships, loving and caring for their partners. Some of those men secretly crave some ’sexual spice’ but would never risk offending their partner with their desires. Some men are ashamed of their fantasies. Some just don’t know exactly what it is they are sexually looking for. There are deep rooted questions, “Am I gay?” “Is BDSM for me?” “Crossdressing?” These kinky fantasies just don’t go away, so the man either quietly keeps them bottled up inside,until he withdraws from the ‘vanilla’ relationship and seeks a spicy live partner. Or, on a safer note, calls up a phone sex service and in 15 minutes relieves the craving and gets back to his happy vanilla self.

Are phone sex callers looking for relationships with the phone sex women? No. The only kind of relationship they want is to find someone nice to listen to who can quickly get at the ‘itch’, who doesn’t rob them, and has a great imagination. Its about the same way women feel about a great hair stylist - someone who just knows what she wants, will style her hair beautifully, taking risks now and then, and not charge too much.

Is phone sex therapy? Yes. Think about it, there is a friendly ear paid to listen and encourage conversation, without any competing ‘issues’ to distract from the conversation. Women have girlfriends for support and listening. Men don’t have that same kind of luxury. During a phone sex call, many men talk through stressful events of the day. Sometimes they ask for feedback and opinions, sometimes they don’t. Besides the fact that ’sex’ is a great stress relief, the actual conversation relieves stress and refreshes the mind and body.

The conversations are what I believe wives are jealous of, and that is where the ‘cheating’ accusation comes in. Wives want their husbands to talk to them, not some stranger. Of course, that is what makes relationship strong and healthy. However, how many wives will LISTEN as well as a phone sex operator? How many women encourage their men to speak on ANY topic, wearing and doing anything he pleases, agreeing to play along with the fantasy, and not change the topic? I know that if more wives and girlfriends could actually do that, there would be alot less phone sex calls made.

Phone sex is not cheating.

These phone sex games are better than any game you could play on a console. Having a real life playmate is something very special. Don’t ever forget to treat her like that. Besides, you are going to have a lot of fun playing with her G Spot.

Maid Service. In this game you have the woman come over like she is about to clean the room. Pretend like you are on an important business call. The woman then begins to bend over and flash you as she is “cleaning”.

To your surprise, she is not wearing any underwear. Wow, who would have guessed that. At some point you put the phone down and have sex. Don’t wait too long because you will have a clean house and no sex.

Room Service. This one is a little different. This time it is the woman on the phone. You come in with a plate of fruit. You then try to distract her by feeding her slowly with the fruit.

Strawberries, cherries and bananas will do well. Also throw in some chocolates and cheese. If she has a favorite wine, make sure to bring it.

At some point go and run her bath water. Put in her favorite fragrance. Once she is relaxed and clean, you then go to the bedroom. The object with this game is to simply have the best orgasm you can. You can handle that can’t you.

Phone Sex. This one can be very nice for both of you. The object is too have an orgasm in a public place. This will require a little planning. First go to two different restaurants.

First have the woman go to the ladies room. When she is in there, it is time to start. Talk to her with your sexiest words. Keep going until she has an orgasm. This may take a while, so hopefully you have an easily orgasmic woman.

Once she finishes, it is your turn. You go to the men’s room. Then you listen as she tells you what she was doing in the ladies bathroom. Once you have an orgasm, it is turn to ask for the check.

You can also play this game at home, but being in public just adds a tinge of danger and enhances the excitement.

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In the beginning of a relationship, it’s tempting to talk to a new love as often as possible. Since most of us carry cell phones, it’s possible to make a call whenever the urge strikes. And therein lies the danger.

Romance thrives on mystery. If you’re on the phone with a new love more than once or twice a day, you’re destroying it. The object of your interest never has to wonder how you’re doing, where you are, or what you’re thinking, because you’re constantly letting him or her know. Before long, your relationship will become as enticing as old cheese. You’ll get bored. Your once-loved one will get extremely bored. You’ll both start looking for excitement elsewhere.

Cell phone sex abuse damages longterm relationships and marriages, too. The husband who calls his wife when he arrives at the office, at lunch, and after he boards the train home may think he’s nurturing the relationship, but he’s killing it. He’s given his wife no chance to miss him. If he wants to call once a day, perhaps on his way home, that’s fine. If he says something like, “It’s been a long day. I can’t wait to see you,” his wife will be thrilled to hear from him.

But he should keep the call short and wait until dinner to share the day’s news. “Storing up” information provokes excitement and mystery. Leaking it via a series of annoying phone calls results in a different reaction. After the phone rings for the fourth time, his wife is likely to moan, “What the hell does he want now?”

Here are two tips to avoid the relationship burn-out that results from cell phone abuse:

Tell the object of your interest that you’ll call at a specific time. Then follow through and keep the call to two minutes, tops. Calling when you say you will fosters trust and intimacy. Keeping it to one or two short calls a day promotes romance, excitement, and mystery.

Tell him or her that you prefer to carry on your relationship in person and not over a wireless connection. If you’re involved with a phone addict, explain that keeping your romance face-to-face means that the NSA will never be privy to the details.

Objects of affection who ignore your pleas to cool it may suffer from control or trust issues. The downside of cell phone technology (as well as text messaging and email) is that it can be tough to distinguish chatterboxes from the emotionally needy and unstable.

Remember, romance and great sex depend on both partners being available to each other– but never too available. Turn off the cell phone and turn up the passion.

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Although hypnosis can often play a vital role in the treatment of a variety of therapeutic issues, ranging from impotence and premature ejaculation to marital discord and decreased libido, its recent misuse is creating new “safe sex” dangers. Although “Erotic Hypnosis” can be used as an adventurous exploration of one’s human sexuality and pleasure, the use of hypnosis should be limited to those properly trained in its application. The proliferation of self-hypnosis programs, however, makes it impossible to fully regulate its private use.

The popularity of books and videos such as “The Sensuous Woman”, “My Secret Garden”, “Secrets About Men Every Woman Should Know”, and “Better Phone Sex” proves that there is a growing market for information that celebrate healthy sex. Peter Masters’ 2001 book, “Look Into My Eyes”, is one of the first to celebrate the use of hypnosis to bring out the best in one’s sex life!

Hypnosis is an often-misunderstood phenomenon that is basically an exercise in deep meditation. Once in a deeply relaxed state, one’s mind develops a natural, heightened focus. It is this fixed concentration that affords one the unique ability to intensify pleasure, via the guided imagery of Erotic Hypnosis, like manipulating a dream, but more absorbing.

As with any sexual experience, trust between partners is vital. By the time one’s relationship may develop into something more physically intimate, there is usually an assumption that enough time has evolved to develop positive trust between partners. Earlier within the relationship, however, one may find a sense of false security in phone sex. Although it can be a safer form of increasing intimacy, it is important to understand that if Erotic Hypnosis is practiced prematurely (especially over the phone), an unscrupulous partner could potentially take advantage of the other partner, without the victim even necessarily fully realizing it.

The potential danger arises from the fact that within this form of hypnosis, one leaves one’s subconscious mind open to suggestions that one desires. Although it is generally true that people do not typically accept, or act upon, suggestions that are inconsistent with their desires, a cleaver hypnotist could offer pleasurable suggestions that may seem reasonable, yet are really more self-serving. The result could be comparable to someone who may have had one too many drinks, who later wondered why they behaved so foolishly the night before. With Erotic Hypnosis, for example, a post-hypnotic suggestion could conceivably be covertly offered that might compel the victim to take the relationship to “the next level,” before they might have otherwise been ready for the advance.

Similar to any intimate encounter, it is invaluable that couples, who desire to experiment with this type of hypnosis, share a deep trust, honesty and mutual respect. Although it is not advisable to use any hypnosis outside of clinically indicated settings, respectful partners who care about each other will likely find this form to be a mutually surprising and stimulating encounter.

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I know they could be. Living in a fairly new suburb of a fast growing city has created a perfect eavesdropping situation. The houses are only about 8 feet apart, the trees are still tiny, and the summers are hot. My windows are wide open at night, as I am sure everyone else’s are in this city. It would be reassuring if there were lots of street noises at night to drown out the moans, sighs and demands (I am Mistress Cassie, afterall), however after 10 pm it is dead silent in this neighborhood. Am I the only night owl here? I doubt it.

So, lets just say my lucky neighbors have plenty of opportunity to listen to some very naughty conversations.

“Martha, you’ll never guess what I heard last night!”

“Oh yeah, I hear it sometimes too… I think its someone’s cat”

“No Martha, its a woman. A woman aahh, she’s ahhh, well, it sounds like she is moaning!”

“Really? I am going to listen again tonight”

Maybe its not like that at all. Maybe its George out by the back fence, just listening and enjoying, not daring to move, afraid I’ll catch him, or worse, his wife Martha will catch him!

Well, we can’t have this kind of situation. I refuse to close the windows and melt away my summer nights. I really don’t intend to patrol the fence between the backyards. I am definitely not going to ask George if he is listening to my phone sex calls. Its my business, literally, and if its of any interest to anyone else, they should be paying $2.99 per minute like the rest of you.

Have you ever wondered if anyone ever overheard one of YOUR phone sex calls? It could happen. Here is my list of preventative measures.

• Close the windows
• Turn some music on (TV works too)
• Call from the bathroom, with the shower running (not a water conscious move)
• Call for phone sex from your car - be careful of the location!
• Use the Cone of Silence
• Invite the neighbors…maybe they will split the bill with you!

Instead trying to keep people you know from listening, you could also make your phone sex calls from a safe place like a hotel room. That way if you are overheard, it will be by strangers. Some people call from the office, although that opens another whole can of worms.

Another thought is to disguise the sounds. Some callers enjoy barking like dogs, being hypnotized into zombies, performing as sissy maids with high squeaky voices. Anyone listening to these types of conversations would be entertained, but likely would not recognize it was a phone sex call they were listening too.

Its all about being comfortable, both during and after the call. Some people LOVE the idea that someone IS listening. A little exposure just adds that last little bit of danger/excitement. If this is your ball of wax, then maybe sit close to the window, and really give your best performance.

As for me, I am going to continue on as I am now, windows wide open. If you happen to be in my neighborhood some night, listen closely. You might like what you hear.

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The money is amazing in this field. Not many woman can sit on the phone and connect with men, that is what enables these phone sex companies to offer such high wages. Would you be willing to talk sexually on the phone if you knew that it meant you could walk away from your nine to five job and never look back. It is this reason alone that a lot of women are willing to give this occupation a try. Half of all women that attempt phone sex, run away and hide. This is definitely not a job for everyone.

If you decide that you can do it. That you will have no problem at all conversing sexually with a stranger, than it is time to find the host company. Look for a company that has a telephone number. Dial that number and see how they answer the phone. If you constantly get a machine and never a return call, than forget that company and move onto the next one. When you find the company, remember not to take yourself too seriously. Have fun with this job.

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Whats phone sex anyway?

For the sake of clarity, phone sex is defined as a phone conversation that aims to sexually arouse and stimulate the people involved. Most of the time, masturbation and orgasms are involved, but that mostly depends on the tastes of the callers. It doesn’t matter if the phone call starts innocently as long as theres erotic content thats meant to stimulate both parties (or more, if you have conference call capabilities) its definitely considered as phone sex.

Should I pay for phone sex?

That depends. If your boyfriend/girlfriend is up for it, then you don’t have to pay for quality phone sex. In fact, phone sex could be a good way to spice up your relationship. Other people with no sexual partners can find a friend or acquaintance who wouldn’t mind having phone sex with them. However, many people turn to phone sex when they either don’t want or don’t have a sexual partner. In this case, you can call a professional for phone sex services. Another alternative is to visit a website meant for people who want to find phone sex partners. Keep in mind that most people who have phone sex with strangers have no intention of scheduling a face to face meeting.

How do I initiate phone sex with someone I know?

Its best not to take it too seriously if you’ve never tried it with a specific person before. If you’re uncomfortable, be humorous about it make your phone sex offer sound like a joke. Its also a good idea to close your eyes and actually imagine that the person you’re speaking with is actually next to you. If you’re having a hard time doing this, make your physical environment conducive to sex. Light up some scented candles, put on some sexy music, etc. use whatever turns you on. The important thing is for both parties to feel comfortable and sexy in their respective locations. Once you’ve established this, you’re good to go.

*Simple phone sex tip: If you’re not sure how to get started, you can tell your partner about things that you wish were happening. Example: I wish we were lying together naked right now. Or I wish I could press my body against yours.

I’m not sure how to do this right, do you have any pointers?

Just like physical sexual contact, you need to develop a refined technique to turn on your partner. Your success depends mostly on how well you describe scenarios, as well as how vividly you visualize. Timing is very important. As with real-life sex, you have to get a rhythm down. This is why you shouldn’t have phone sex when you’re in a hurry. Quickies almost never work via phone sex, mostly because phone sex is most successful when expectations and excitement are built up.

Its also important to be considerate of the other person, to make sure that they’re actually in the mood for phone sex. Chat about mundane things for a while and get to know more about their day, because initiating phone sex when someones dog just died never really works.

It helps to keep your language casual. Avoid sounding too technical by saying things like I want to slide my penis into your vagina. Its better if you can add a slang-type spin on the way you say these things.

When it comes to technique, the key is to be graphic but believable. Make sure that the moves you make are realistic, and that you keep in track of what position you’re currently in. After all, you don’t want to be interrupted by the other person saying How did that happen? I thought your hand was on my thigh?! Needless to say, you need to keep your graphic descriptions simple. Very long and complicated descriptions tend to confuse a lot of people. You don’t want to sound like a badly translated electronics manual from China.

What are the advantages of having phone sex?

If you’re having phone sex with someone you’re in a relationship with, its a good way to tell your partner about your sexual fantasies. It also spices up your relationship, especially since most people forget to sexually indulge their partner in an auditory way (ex. Talking dirty, etc). This is also beneficial to long distance relationships, or couples with busy schedules. But remember phone sex shouldn’t be the only way you satisfy your partner.

For those who have casual phone sex with acquaintances or strangers, the advantage is that you can do as much of it as you can without worrying about STDs and such. Its also a good way to learn new tricks that you can apply in bed when you have a chance.

What are disadvantages of having phone sex?

The trouble with phone sex, as with most good things, is that some people get addicted to it. When you spend too much time doing it via phone, that would give you less time to do it physically. You might even kill your sensitivity to a current/potential partners physical and emotional needs. Also, if you’re using paid phone sex hotlines, you might incur too many expenses.

The first tip is to make sure you will have at least 30 minutes of uninterrupted time. Turn of the mobile phone and lock the door!

The second tip for some great phone sex is to describe everything in a lot of detail. Talk about all the senses, so include the smells, the sensations of touch and your feelings. The more vivid you make it the more your lover will feel it in their body.

For example, if you are describing a fantasy of being on a beach, describe the sounds of the surf and the sea gulls squawking. Describe the sand molding to your body and the heat of the sun on your naked body and how this is turning you on.

As you are not present with your lover, you need to be more erotic and hotter than usual. Describe some fantasies that you would never try in real life.

So be naughty and wild and you can’t go wrong.

Tune into what your partner is saying and how they are breathing. You can tell how aroused they are just by listening. Make sure you tell your partner how turned on you are by making erotic sounds of pleasure. So really enjoy yourself and let your lover know this by your sounds and energy.

Phone sex can be a great way to stay close even though your lover is hundreds of miles away.

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The best way on how to have phone sex is to never hold anything back. You’re not there with your partner, so you have to go the extra mile to make things even hotter. That might mean getting into kinkier fantasies than what you might every try in real life, and making sure that you describe everything in wild, vivid detail. Don’t be afraid to say things that are a little “out there” - your partner probably has a few naughty tales of his own to spin, and you want him to share just as openly as you do, right?

Start out with your simple fantasies, or dirty talk phrases that will get him going. Tell him what you’re wearing, and if you’re not wearing anything at all, make sure you tell him exactly what you’re doing as you are talking to him. Describe everything in detail. Wait for his cue before you use more graphic words. The rule of thumb here is that if he says it, you can say it, too.

Pay attention to your partner’s breathing as you talk to him. The more aroused he gets, the more strident his breath will be. Listen to where he is leading you with his encouraging words. If he wants more, he will lead you there!

Finally, don’t be afraid to enjoy yourself, too. The goal of phone sex is not necessarily to have an orgasm through all those dirty talk phrases - the goal is to stay close to your partner, even though you are separated by distance. If you can talk openly about your desires, staying close will be easy for you!